Ask the right question -- Who do you say I am? -- Follow your own path -- Join God's club -- Is your prayer too small? -- Read the Bible again -- Keep an open and hearing heart -- Pay attention, listen, and learn -- Hearing the heart's desire -- Name your gifts -- Listen to your body -- Two hearing hearts are better than one -- Holiness in the oddest places -- Quiet the hamsters -- Pockets of trust and surrender -- Seeing yourself as God sees you -- Consult the truth tellers -- Experience and discernment -- Examining the heart -- The blessing of friends -- Wise guides -- Just keep trying -- Play and pray -- Discernment when God is AWOL -- A little reason, a little imagination -- My life would be better if ... -- Waiting rooms -- This is your life -- Small steps -- Getting the right answer