Love and money -- Conscious couples and financial harmony -- Understanding each other's point of view -- Managing your money styles -- Creating financial harmony -- Three rules for financial harmony -- Rule 1: If you don't have it, you can't spend it -- Rule 2: Follow the 80:20 rule -- Rule 3: Even big kids get to play -- Seven skills for financial harmony -- Skill 1 : Planning together -- Skill 2 : Creating a simple structure -- Skill 3 : Getting into good habits -- Skill 4 : Communicating through conflict -- Skill 5 : Investing for strong returns -- Skill 6 : Creating a safety net for two -- Skill 7 : Getting help when you need it -- Four lifestyle decisions that make or break your finances -- Decision 1 : Where you live -- Decision 2 : What you drive -- Decision 3 : Whether you have children -- Decision 4 : When you retire